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Newborn spirit

There has been something dead inside of me that I only became aware of after I buried it. In the Jewish religion, we bury our dead in 24 hours so that we can start the grieving process believed to be only possible after burial. I’ve found lately that sometimes these literal interpretations of religion don’t serve me. My mother was near dead for six months in the hospital, and I had to begin my grieving…

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Saturday is Family Day

Yesterday was a terrific summer’s day. I romped in the Couturie Forest with a friend who I have not been able to catch up with for a long time. I went to the Farmer’s Market and finally got my knives sharpened and got some delicious summer squash, Creole tomatoes, gulf shrimp and peaches! I came home and we all got in the larger than life family pool that I blew up with the air mattress…

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Why people live there, not here

So you know how they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder? And well, it is. This morning I went with a friend and our dogs to the Couturie Forest in City Park, which I’ve been hearing about for a while now. Yes, I was expecting a forest, but the sad fact is that most of the forest was denuded by the Federal Flood and the subsequent clean up that took away all…

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Reaching back to touchstones

When the Tennessee Williams Festival was happening, it felt so good to be reimmersed once again in literature – oh yeah, remember that old chestnut. A long time ago when I was figuring out my life I figured it would revolve around literature and art and whatnot, instead somewhere about 16 years ago, I started working in the financial industry where well read authors were those who wrote books called Blink, The 7 Habit of…

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A life of possibilities

Lately, it seems that I am constantly weighing what to leave in and what to leave out. At the core of who I am these days is a mother, a partner, and a family: But I’m also a friend too and sometimes when you have become isolated from your friends because of work and your family, it’s nice to know they can pick up the ball and reach out and touch you. I woke yesterday…

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A hat person

I’ve always been a hat person – love them and love to wear them. But wait, there’s more, I love wigs too. I love to change my hair and often. So my neighbor stopped me yesterday and said, “I didn’t recognize you, you change your hair so often it shows that you are comfortable about who you are.” I said, really? Well do tell. I searched for the right hat for Tin, who keeps taking…

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What did I do with that relaxed me?

A friend stopped by yesterday and said that she is going into business – the business of having a more tempered lifestyle, one where work doesn’t overshadow every other facet of her life. Yeah, well me too, is all I could think. Only, it’s barely 10am and I’ve been out of breath since I bolted out of bed. No time for meditation, no time for contemplation, and certainly no time for relaxation. What goes on?

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