Time to follow your bliss
Friday, November 20th, 2009There is a card in the Tarot deck of a woman blindfolded with two swords – I like this card because it is about self binding. If she used the sword to cut off the blindfold and turned around she would see the stunning blue ocean behind her.
So it is with everything that you think you can make happen. Take any number of issues that I am juggling right now – my mom, no control over what happens, no strong investment in the outcome as all options lead to the place of no return. Take the adoption – we’re up, we’re down, and suddenly things are starting to seem familiar, like oddly familiar to the last time where we were taken for a ride emotionally and financially and our wanting to believe was soon replaced with we couldn’t believe.
It’s like in life you set up all these cards and you think to yourself that it is so important that they all stand upright just so and when you get the house of cards all situated you pray no one blows too hard in your direction, but then suddenly thinking you are safe in your card structure you turn around and accidentally the entire structure falls apart. That’s called freedom.
Because I feel like I’ve have spent the last year trying to make something happen – trying to make my mother better, or happy, or safe, trying to make a baby whether though T or us or them, trying to be a good worker bee and giving everything I have to make a company a success in challenging times – and you know in the end sometime you just have to back away from it all and let go, and let god.
There are many things I want to do in life and I have been bound by self-imposed walls/tethers. One is to not worry about my mother. The other is to be a parent to a child – not a mother, or a husband, but a child. And along the way, I want to do meaningful work in my life.
I think it is high time I quit trying to make everything and everyone turn out all right and turn inward and follow my own bliss.