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Miss Gaspar

Mom said there was a party going on in the room next door to her and bid me to go check. I was placating her and she got vexed so I went over there to see if there was any sort of party going on. Instead I found meek Ms. Gaspar sleeping in her dark bed, not uttering a peep. When a friend of mine was dying of AIDS, in his final month, he lay…

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Cradle to grave

I’ve been speaking to women who might be looking to put their baby up for adoption. I know what is coming in a year long segue into dirty diapers but I can’t tell you how thrilled I am at the chance that we might be parents very soon. Today, I was visiting my mother and once again watching the nurses clean her up and then right when they finished, like clockwork, they had to start…

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My first therapist got it right the first time

When I went to therapy for the first time at 20 years old it was because I was in love with a manic depressive alcoholic plus I wanted to be able to get along with my family, who I loved, but was having difficulty. She told me that I should move as far away from my family as I possibly could. October 20, 2009. When Parents Are Too Toxic to Tolerate By RICHARD A. FRIEDMAN, M.D.…

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The wisdom of age

I was driving home the other day from the hospital and found I had two messages on my cellphone. I pulled over to listen to them and they were from a nutty relation spewing venom. I listened without having any feeling whatsoever and then only a mild sense of amusement. I had, I learned today, transcended the moment. If every transaction requires a giver and a receiver and I was not the giver of these…

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Look up, tonight

The best time to watch the earth as it moves past Halley’s Comet debris left in the atmosphere will be between 1 a.m. and dawn local time Wednesday morning, regardless of your location. That’s when the patch of Earth you are standing on is barreling headlong into space on Earth’s orbital track, and meteors get scooped up like bugs on a windshield.

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