Archive for October, 2008

Voodoo Experience in my own backyard

Friday, October 24th, 2008

City Park is blocked off and all a flurry this morning and the Voodoo Experience gets ready to open its doors. I took a look at the line up having mistakenly dismissed it as a youth experience. Although I saw a bunch of youths lined up already waiting to get in, the truth is tomorrow the Old 97s and Bonearama and more play and on Sunday Irma Thomas, the Queen of New Orleans is singing. Hard to believe this is happening in the back yard.

Obama – via the NYT

Friday, October 24th, 2008

I woke this morning with hope in my heart. I put on my two Obama buttons that T brought home the other day. I believe is what I was thinking as I walked through the park. Then I read this editorial in the New York Times endorsing Barack Obama and thought, I am so glad I renewed my subscription:

This about sums up the whole shebang:

October 24, 2008
EDITORIAL
Barack Obama for President

Hyperbole is the currency of presidential campaigns, but this year the nation’s future truly hangs in the balance.

The United States is battered and drifting after eight years of President Bush’s failed leadership. He is saddling his successor with two wars, a scarred global image and a government systematically stripped of its ability to protect and help its citizens — whether they are fleeing a hurricane’s floodwaters, searching for affordable health care or struggling to hold on to their homes, jobs, savings and pensions in the midst of a financial crisis that was foretold and preventable.

As tough as the times are, the selection of a new president is easy. After nearly two years of a grueling and ugly campaign, Senator Barack Obama of Illinois has proved that he is the right choice to be the 44th president of the United States.

Mr. Obama has met challenge after challenge, growing as a leader and putting real flesh on his early promises of hope and change. He has shown a cool head and sound judgment. We believe he has the will and the ability to forge the broad political consensus that is essential to finding solutions to this nation’s problems.

In the same time, Senator John McCain of Arizona has retreated farther and farther to the fringe of American politics, running a campaign on partisan division, class warfare and even hints of racism. His policies and worldview are mired in the past. His choice of a running mate so evidently unfit for the office was a final act of opportunism and bad judgment that eclipsed the accomplishments of 26 years in Congress.

Given the particularly ugly nature of Mr. McCain’s campaign, the urge to choose on the basis of raw emotion is strong. But there is a greater value in looking closely at the facts of life in America today and at the prescriptions the candidates offer. The differences are profound.

Mr. McCain offers more of the Republican every-man-for-himself ideology, now lying in shards on Wall Street and in Americans’ bank accounts. Mr. Obama has another vision of government’s role and responsibilities.

In his convention speech in Denver, Mr. Obama said, “Government cannot solve all our problems, but what it should do is that which we cannot do for ourselves: protect us from harm and provide every child a decent education; keep our water clean and our toys safe; invest in new schools and new roads and new science and technology.”

Since the financial crisis, he has correctly identified the abject failure of government regulation that has brought the markets to the brink of collapse.

The Economy

The American financial system is the victim of decades of Republican deregulatory and anti-tax policies. Those ideas have been proved wrong at an unfathomable price, but Mr. McCain — a self-proclaimed “foot soldier in the Reagan revolution” — is still a believer.

Mr. Obama sees that far-reaching reforms will be needed to protect Americans and American business.

Mr. McCain talks about reform a lot, but his vision is pinched. His answer to any economic question is to eliminate pork-barrel spending — about $18 billion in a $3 trillion budget — cut taxes and wait for unfettered markets to solve the problem.

Mr. Obama is clear that the nation’s tax structure must be changed to make it fairer. That means the well-off Americans who have benefited disproportionately from Mr. Bush’s tax cuts will have to pay some more. Working Americans, who have seen their standard of living fall and their children’s options narrow, will benefit. Mr. Obama wants to raise the minimum wage and tie it to inflation, restore a climate in which workers are able to organize unions if they wish and expand educational opportunities.

Mr. McCain, who once opposed President Bush’s tax cuts for the wealthy as fiscally irresponsible, now wants to make them permanent. And while he talks about keeping taxes low for everyone, his proposed cuts would overwhelmingly benefit the top 1 percent of Americans while digging the country into a deeper fiscal hole.

National Security

The American military — its people and equipment — is dangerously overstretched. Mr. Bush has neglected the necessary war in Afghanistan, which now threatens to spiral into defeat. The unnecessary and staggeringly costly war in Iraq must be ended as quickly and responsibly as possible.

While Iraq’s leaders insist on a swift drawdown of American troops and a deadline for the end of the occupation, Mr. McCain is still talking about some ill-defined “victory.” As a result, he has offered no real plan for extracting American troops and limiting any further damage to Iraq and its neighbors.

Mr. Obama was an early and thoughtful opponent of the war in Iraq, and he has presented a military and diplomatic plan for withdrawing American forces. Mr. Obama also has correctly warned that until the Pentagon starts pulling troops out of Iraq, there will not be enough troops to defeat the Taliban and Al Qaeda in Afghanistan.

Mr. McCain, like Mr. Bush, has only belatedly focused on Afghanistan’s dangerous unraveling and the threat that neighboring Pakistan may quickly follow.

Mr. Obama would have a learning curve on foreign affairs, but he has already showed sounder judgment than his opponent on these critical issues. His choice of Senator Joseph Biden — who has deep foreign-policy expertise — as his running mate is another sign of that sound judgment. Mr. McCain’s long interest in foreign policy and the many dangers this country now faces make his choice of Gov. Sarah Palin of Alaska more irresponsible.

Both presidential candidates talk about strengthening alliances in Europe and Asia, including NATO, and strongly support Israel. Both candidates talk about repairing America’s image in the world. But it seems clear to us that Mr. Obama is far more likely to do that — and not just because the first black president would present a new American face to the world.

Mr. Obama wants to reform the United Nations, while Mr. McCain wants to create a new entity, the League of Democracies — a move that would incite even fiercer anti-American furies around the world.

Unfortunately, Mr. McCain, like Mr. Bush, sees the world as divided into friends (like Georgia) and adversaries (like Russia). He proposed kicking Russia out of the Group of 8 industrialized nations even before the invasion of Georgia. We have no sympathy for Moscow’s bullying, but we also have no desire to replay the cold war. The United States must find a way to constrain the Russians’ worst impulses, while preserving the ability to work with them on arms control and other vital initiatives.

Both candidates talk tough on terrorism, and neither has ruled out military action to end Iran’s nuclear weapons program. But Mr. Obama has called for a serious effort to try to wean Tehran from its nuclear ambitions with more credible diplomatic overtures and tougher sanctions. Mr. McCain’s willingness to joke about bombing Iran was frightening.

The Constitution and the Rule of Law

Under Mr. Bush and Vice President Dick Cheney, the Constitution, the Bill of Rights, the justice system and the separation of powers have come under relentless attack. Mr. Bush chose to exploit the tragedy of Sept. 11, 2001, the moment in which he looked like the president of a unified nation, to try to place himself above the law.

Mr. Bush has arrogated the power to imprison men without charges and browbeat Congress into granting an unfettered authority to spy on Americans. He has created untold numbers of “black” programs, including secret prisons and outsourced torture. The president has issued hundreds, if not thousands, of secret orders. We fear it will take years of forensic research to discover how many basic rights have been violated.

Both candidates have renounced torture and are committed to closing the prison camp in Guantánamo Bay, Cuba.

But Mr. Obama has gone beyond that, promising to identify and correct Mr. Bush’s attacks on the democratic system. Mr. McCain has been silent on the subject.

Mr. McCain improved protections for detainees. But then he helped the White House push through the appalling Military Commissions Act of 2006, which denied detainees the right to a hearing in a real court and put Washington in conflict with the Geneva Conventions, greatly increasing the risk to American troops.

The next president will have the chance to appoint one or more justices to a Supreme Court that is on the brink of being dominated by a radical right wing. Mr. Obama may appoint less liberal judges than some of his followers might like, but Mr. McCain is certain to pick rigid ideologues. He has said he would never appoint a judge who believes in women’s reproductive rights.

The Candidates

It will be an enormous challenge just to get the nation back to where it was before Mr. Bush, to begin to mend its image in the world and to restore its self-confidence and its self-respect. Doing all of that, and leading America forward, will require strength of will, character and intellect, sober judgment and a cool, steady hand.

Mr. Obama has those qualities in abundance. Watching him being tested in the campaign has long since erased the reservations that led us to endorse Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton in the Democratic primaries. He has drawn in legions of new voters with powerful messages of hope and possibility and calls for shared sacrifice and social responsibility.

Mr. McCain, whom we chose as the best Republican nominee in the primaries, has spent the last coins of his reputation for principle and sound judgment to placate the limitless demands and narrow vision of the far-right wing. His righteous fury at being driven out of the 2000 primaries on a racist tide aimed at his adopted daughter has been replaced by a zealous embrace of those same win-at-all-costs tactics and tacticians.

He surrendered his standing as an independent thinker in his rush to embrace Mr. Bush’s misbegotten tax policies and to abandon his leadership position on climate change and immigration reform.

Mr. McCain could have seized the high ground on energy and the environment. Earlier in his career, he offered the first plausible bill to control America’s emissions of greenhouse gases. Now his positions are a caricature of that record: think Ms. Palin leading chants of “drill, baby, drill.”

Mr. Obama has endorsed some offshore drilling, but as part of a comprehensive strategy including big investments in new, clean technologies.

Mr. Obama has withstood some of the toughest campaign attacks ever mounted against a candidate. He’s been called un-American and accused of hiding a secret Islamic faith. The Republicans have linked him to domestic terrorists and questioned his wife’s love of her country. Ms. Palin has also questioned millions of Americans’ patriotism, calling Republican-leaning states “pro-America.”

This politics of fear, division and character assassination helped Mr. Bush drive Mr. McCain from the 2000 Republican primaries and defeat Senator John Kerry in 2004. It has been the dominant theme of his failed presidency.

The nation’s problems are simply too grave to be reduced to slashing “robo-calls” and negative ads. This country needs sensible leadership, compassionate leadership, honest leadership and strong leadership. Barack Obama has shown that he has all of those qualities.

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Vote No on 8

Thursday, October 23rd, 2008

If you live in California and are reading this – vote NO on 8. If you want a story to go with it – take it from one of my favorite craftsman, Jonathan Adler:

Eulogy for Charlie Powderpuff
 
My faith in the human race has taken a turn for the better.

On September 18th, I got married…to another man!  I refer to Simon Doonan, the creative director of Barneys, the divine author, and my S.O. for the last 14 years.  Our life together is heaven, with all the gorgeous bits of the reviled-but-kinda’-great canonical gay film Boys in the Band–the glamour, the giggles, the cracked crab hors d’oeuvres–but none of the self-hating breakdowns or mishegas of the tortured gays depicted in the film (if you don’t know what I’m talking about, rent Boys in the Band immediately!).  We are gay, happy, in love, and now we are married.  Never what I expected.

Let’s dial back:
As a kid growing up in rural New Jersey I was not exactly inundated with positive gay role models. Au Contraire!

The only out gay person in my town – a marginalized character who was called Charlie Powderpuff – was kind of a legend.  I never actually met Mr. Powderpuff, but legend has it that he was a black trannie who lived in a housing project and was the object of laughter and ridicule.  My childhood friend Marvin lived in the project and used to regale me with stories about Mr. Powderpuff’s legendary, nelly antics, never imagining that he was talking to a Charlie Powderpuff-in-training.  The legend continues – Charlie Powderpuff was legendarily bludgeoned to death in an alleyway. WELCOME TO THE GARDEN STATE!

The message was clear:  Charlie Powderpuffs get killed, Joe Six Packs thrive.  Like all gay teens I kept my secret close to the chest and I kept the legend of Charlie Powderpuff close to my heart.

Over the subsequent decades I came out. I managed not to get bludgeoned. In fact,  I constructed a rather fab life for myself: I created my dream career. I found the love of my life.  And I discovered that life as a gay adult more than makes up for the heinousness of a gay childhood. 

Simon and I have been together for 14 years and have always considered ourselves married, so when we chose to make it official (because we finally could) we assumed it would be a simple procedure, like paying a parking ticket.  But, as our wedding approached, long-forgotten emotions started to percolate.  I felt flickerings of those old misgivings and anxieties about societal acceptance.  When we arrived at San Francisco City Hall, I half expected to see a few zealots waving anti-gay placards. 

Mais non. It was all incredibly sweet.

Since that day I have been inundated, deluged and overwhelmed with good wishes from pals and strangers.

Rather than throwing tomatoes, people threw bouquets and an endless stream to MAZELTOVS!  I feel like the world isn’t divided up into Joe Six Packs and Charlie Powderpuffs.  I feel validated, reborn and reaffirmed. As the dearly departed disco diva Sylvester would say, I feel mighty real.

There’s only one problem, and it’s not really so little: a powerful well-funded lobby is attempting to pass Proposition 8 in California and deny us gays our civil rights.  Their desire to deny us the right to marry – and the important benefits which come with it – is hateful. 
 
I have built a career and a business based largely on wedding presents.  June is one of my biggest retail months, when we sell lots of bowls and pitchers and vases as wedding gifts.  But, I have a message to well-wishers: Don’t send me any Star Jones gifts.  Send money to defeat prop 8.  And while you’re at it, why don’t you make the donation in memory of Charlie Powderpuff.

In the name of all the Charlie Powderpuffs of the world, I thank you.
 
Love,
Jonathan Adler-Doonan
 

Insight into the new economy

Thursday, October 23rd, 2008

job-hunting

What to do in New Orleans?

Thursday, October 23rd, 2008

Someone asked for recommendations for where to eat and where to go in New Orleans while they are here for Halloween night – where do I begin?

Restaurants:

Breakfast – Petunia’s, Elizabeth’s, Mother’s and Camelia Grill

Lunch – Napoleon House (inc. Pimm’s Cup, sit in patio), NOLA’s, Casamentos, K Paul’s

Dinner – Brigtsen’s, Dick & Jenny’s, Meaux Bar, August

Other food – Café du Monde

Bars/Music:

Uptown –
Tipitinas
The Columns – sit on the Avenue and have cocktail

Marigny (where you want to be for Halloween)
Frenchman Street in the Marigny
Boom Boom Room and Spotted Cat and DBA

Snug Harbor

9th Ward
Vaughn’s – Thursday nights

Blame it on nature

Thursday, October 23rd, 2008

Bam Bam, the Shim Sham man, likes to tear the screen on the porch to get out. You can open the door for him, or even open the doggie door for him, but this is a sneaky cat whose very nature won’t allow him to enter or exit in a proper manner.

The other day, I bathed Loca in the outside shower because she plunged into the bayou and was a smelly dog. She’s been smelling all nice and clean till this morning, when we met up with the mayor of the hood and his dog and took them into Cabrini’s lot and I watched Loca squirm around in mud puddle and sand and grass and lie there eating sticks when she wasn’t chest butting the other dog. I couldn’t look. She was smiling from ear to ear. It’s her nature to be smelly.

After a few days of gloom, I’ve decided to ignore the naysayers who think the world is going to hell in a handbasket and be happy and gay (literally)! Hey, why not? It’s my nature.

Rainy Thursday

Thursday, October 23rd, 2008

Abby’s family held a viewing for her last night and although I went there with a heavy heart, I walked inside Lakelawn Memorial and was greeted by another family gathered in a viewing room near the entrance. Laughter spilled out from the crowd in there. A little boy ran out and ran back in, and was pulling on his mother’s dress and he called to her as he ran away, “I love you mom.”

I thought about the fleeting joy of life and had a sudden urge to tell everyone who comes to my funeral to wear wigs and celebrate the joy I have known. Later, standing near Abby’s tiny white coffin with the pink bow, I was speaking with a friend and he told me his desire was to be buried in a full bunny suit.

Our conversation went from burial to work and then inevitably to the current state of Wall Street. I said I am daily fighting off the feeling of being irrelevant. He said, “Maybe you’re wrong. Maybe fundamentals matter now more than ever. We’re headed back to the basics.” I liked that point of view.

Then I looked over at my friend stroking her daughter’s cheek. There is a saying in every culture that a parent should never have to bury their child – I have to say I have never experienced more profound sadness than watching my friends cope with their dying daughter.

The meaning of life is to live it. Remember that.

Why read fiction

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008

Years ago I was editing a book for an engineer and he said “I don’t read fiction.” And I said, “why not?” And he said, “Give me one good reason.” And I said, “Because fiction tells of the human condition.” And he just said, “Hmm.”

Today I read this story again for the umpteenth time because a friend of mine in SF reminded me that I turned her onto Eudora Welty years ago.

As the saying goes

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008

There is a common theme amongst Jews not to brag or say things are good because you invite bad. I was speaking to someone today who gave me a different cultural spin on the same thought. Russians believe you never let the bad show on yourself. Or that’s the literal translation. A friend around here who leans towards the new age said “don’t claim it” when it’s something bad.

So after spending the last two weeks saying “I’m going to have a heart attack” – I’ve changed my mantra. My heart is fine, my head is fine (won’t explode), and my body is great. I’m on the horse, another Russian saying.

I asked a Russian friend of mine if she is on the horse today and she said “face down in the dirt” – I said, good golly Miss Molly, time for a new attitude.

Pumpkin Prankster Strikes Again!

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008

Mid-morning a new jack-o-lantern showed up on the porch. This is the fifth pumpkin to be hijacked and returned with a new attitude. And it leaves one full pumpkin and a varied assortment of smaller gourds (left by the prankster) to fun around with. Time for a trip to Rouse’s for more pumpkins, I suspect.

Note Dead Ed on top of the new jack-o – he is a product of my own inside joke last year: