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Lesbians mate for life

There is a standing joke in the community that when Lesbians hook up they move in together by date three. One of the hallmarks I’ve noticed about the Lesbian community is that in general old girlfriends don’t go away, they get incorporated. Well it’s not that this doesn’t happen in the heterosexual world – my ex is still a close friend – but it’s also not like I’m taking trips or having a standing Sunday…

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Gentlemen prefer blondes

E was recounting a story of her friend – the one with the difficult relationship past. They were at Pal’s the day that Trumpet closed on its building here in MidCity and the whole office was in there celebrating. Her friend looked over at one of the guys and told E, “Whoa, he’s hot.” And E suggested, “Why don’t you go talk to him?” And her friend said, “Nah, I’m not his type, he prefers…

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Katie – bring something to the table

There is an article today about how Katie Couric’s ratings are not doing so well and that the new leadership is pushing for a conventional heavy hitting newsroom while Katie said that is not what she signed up for. In the same space of words is an article saying nearly 220 people died in Iraq this weekend. Wow, if 220 people died in New Orleans it would register on the richter scale for us in…

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A kinder and gentler bike ride

B is out of town so I went with K instead for a bike ride – started off solo and met up with her at Landry’s and we rode around the Point and back. I took it easy today because last Sunday I had gotten heat stroke and was really quite sick because of it. Then this morning before setting out I read that heat stroke is pretty serious – that you can die as…

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MiMi’s – it’s been too long

I haven’t been to MiMi’s since the place was held up at gunpoint late last summer (well if you don’t count two Mardi Gras stops). I was meeting a guy to interview him for the book I’m working on. The tapas are really good there (patatas bravas, tortilla espanola, artichokes, scallops on bed of red lentils, mushroom toast). We ordered a bottle of rose (rioja) and while I tried to engage the guy in telling…

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Essence is all that

We all went and checked out the marketplace at the convention center for the Essence Festival – I found a gorgeous purple flowy top – the woman said she uses color as a healing tool and that this shade of purple was the most intense on the color chart – having the greatest effect. It’s cute and it heals – can’t beat that.

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Be the person you want to date

I’ve been talking to K lately because I called her after hearing she was back in town and so she came to my dinner party and I’m going to her dinner party – and well, we just kind of hit it off. I remember being at TL’s Jazz Fest party in ’06, which is where I met L, man of mystery, and he said: “You don’t know Downtown KB, everyone knows her.” And that stuck…

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