My sister called to say “why don’t you come visit me when you know that I am sick” – I didn’t respond.
My mother called to say that she is driving to Atlanta to get back the Volvo I gave her that she let my sister drive off with six months ago. She refuses to take responsibility for her part in the matter.
If you don’t engage – they can’t get you. But the first phone call caused me to burn the lentil soup I was making and the second phone call caused me to burn the pine nuts I was heating for the pesto I was making out of all the basil I got from B this morning. She had a big black garbage bag full of basil.