So my men friends have said point blank to me that my experience with the Mesmerizer is typical. He pursued, he conquered, he came, he left. Last night the comedy show was about watching porn – interested, interested, interested, very interested, not interested. And so if that sums up the male psyche – god help all women.
But when I decided to extend an olive branch of friendship and forget how poorly he behaved as a man, Mr. Mesmerizer proved that he is not only emotionally unavailable, but emotionally challenged. And for that, I could just kick myself for wasting my time on being nice.
The truth is that the first sign is probably the best sign that you should not invest any time with someone who is not investing the time in you. But as my source, who crashed in my room last night, said: Women do it and keep doing it, so don’t beat yourself up.