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The 5-year plan

Where do you want to be in five years? Note to self: try to answer that question while figuring out why you seem not to be able to answer what you want right now, or even when you think you know what you might want in the here and now, you appear incapable of asking for it. What about you has changed? Really? Why not rely on the old habit of pleasing, it eases the…

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Don’t waste this opportunity

I was driving out to Metairie today on my way to see Abby with a pair of tiny shoes with mermaids on them in a bag next to me and my mind was in full gear after a good night’s rest – then memory flashes began going off in the rat-a-tat-tat fashion of a semi automatic and I was overwhelmed by sadness, grief, and joy competing for my attention – all in a matter of…

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Torch Down is Down

I walked the Bean this morning and went by the LaLa – the terrace is flashed and the torch down is down – so there has been progress this week when it felt like not. I was standing in the bathroom when my neighbors came out of their side door and I stood there and watched them and thought frosted glass or etched glass or something obscure, opaque, contact paper, something something, whatyougonnado? Waved to…

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