Message in the bottle
In Chicago, can’t sleep – want to be home face to face to see my gf and heal my heart. I was reading an article in the WSJ about how important face to face business meetings are and I know for sure they are uber important in personal relationships. Through email and text and voicemail messages the human slips away and what gets said is washed of emotion and empathy.
Here is my horoscope today – how appropriate as I’ve been trying to figure out how to communicate my recent behavior – that I was trying to make sure she was happy at the expense of my happiness and it backfired:
March 31, 2009
Taurus (4/20-5/20)
You’re getting closer to a very special person in your life, and it’s only natural that you might be feeling a growing sense of responsibility towards them. But make sure you draw the line at being responsible for their happiness. All you can do is support them and respect their choices. If they are looking for answers, you have to make it clear that you don’t have them. Help them learn that the solutions they seek lie within them, not in another person.