On the question of choice – that we choose the people in our life – what is your point? – we choose those we are attracted to no matter if that attraction is based on some huge development flaw in us, in them – it is what it is, we are where we are, this is it, there is no other play – we cannot pull out what we don’t like about our foundation without rocking the structure – so it’s Act 4 – the lights have come on – the curtain has just parted – you catch a glimpse of the whites of the audience’s eyes – a smile spreads across your face – a voice inside of you urges you front and center in the play of your life – now go surprise, delight, spread joy and dance. Life is short, but it is wide…..
what choice???? remember that it is a random universe.
random but when we give it meaning – when we say you are meant for me – and I for you – then everything changes – todo cambio – mark my words hijita, you will be mine is what I say to the universe – mine to love and mine to shroud with meaning – and oh what a difference to me. And to you.
We don’t say anything, it is all energy, and that is the beauty of randomness, there is no choice, no spoken words, it’s just is…and then we give it whatever meaning we want. Now, that is freedom!
Okay – you’re right – it happens – and then we give it meaning – instead of it issuing from within. I agree.