Do you know when the pendulum is in the middle?
I came back from dropping off Jake – and stopped to say hi and goodnight to some friends on the way. They were in the middle of talking about how to know when you are changing your past behavior that didn’t suit you to going overboard in the other direction – the pendulum swinging too far to the other side – and I asked, well how do you know when you’re in the middle. I haven’t known my pendulum was on one side and then I certainly saw it swinging to the other one, but will I know when it is safely, comfortably, tolerably in the middle?