That’s the title of a book I’m writing. Or at least that is what I told this guy I met yesterday – a friend of a friend who I ran into in the afternoon at Del Forno. We stopped in to see what was going on and as usual found a coterie of interesting Turks to engage in afternoon conversation. So Chapter One in this book is WHY I AM ATTRACTED TO ASSHOLES. But Chapter 2 is going to be NO MORE ASSHOLES. And Chapter 3 is LEARNING TO CARE FOR YOURSELF or it could be substitled “NEVER GIVE A MAN MORE THAN HE ASKS FOR” after the advice of a friend. Her friend said, there is a similar sentiment for men, “never give a woman all that she wants.”