On learning to be guileful, not
I was telling a friend that I was learning how to be guileful because being truthful wasn’t working for me – when suddenly I had an enormous epiphany – I haven’t been truthful at all lately. Another friend told me she is always worried that she might sound – god forbid – needy if she is truthful and/or even worse vulnerable. I told her I so agree – the thought of being perceived as needy…