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Have a great hair day!

Face it, how many women know what color their hair truly is? I thought I was a blonde leading to a light brunette – but the years sneaked in a new shade of dark on me and then decided to sprinkle it all over with grey. While all that red was on my hair – underneath my hair was becoming something else. When Scott at Jupiter told me that he was coloring my hair to…

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The Master says to delay “everything”

There is something so wonderful about being an older mother, about having lived my life a thousand times over before meeting Tin and helping him to make his way through his life. There is also an ease to love at this age, I know myself better today than I did yesterday and this person is committed to commitment, to making this relationship work by allowing it to grow organically and not stepping in to guide…

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Don’t be a do be

I saw some satire a million years ago, maybe on Saturday Night Live and it was a woman saying, “I’m a doer,” and perhaps she was Italian, perhaps it was a movie and not TV, but I remember thinking, ack, that’s me, I’m a doer! I’ve been taking care of business all my life – rushing from here to there, deadset on getting whatever project I started done and undertaking projects when there is really…

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The world becomes transparent like me

I got up this morning and hit the ground running – Loca and I fled out the house to take a run in the park, still cold although it is supposed to warm up tomorrow, back home huffing and puffing, get ready for a slew of calls, and then bing bang, get Tin, feed bottle, prepared breakfast, nanny early, this that, bing bang. Then I just took a breather and was looking at something online…

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Back to our normal

Loca and I went for a walk run through City Park this morning but before we got off the front porch I turned to look at the bayou because I heard what sounded like a human being jumping in the water – instead it was two large Louisiana pelicans juking and diving and a merry band of cormorants swimming around them. Not a human was stirring as it is the day after Mardi Gras here…

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The real deal

We saw a lot of families out in costume yesterday on Fat Tuesday – the family of monkeys, skunks, a pink family and a blue family and you name it sort of family. Everyone thought that I was carrying around a fake baby in my pack because when Tin was napping, I’d have the flap pulled over his head. Yes, this is a real baby, is what I said countless times. And sometimes I have…

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