Is there a psychological explanation
In a world where everyone is trying to blame someone else for what isn’t working, I was reading about a woman who was molested as a child and then pursued a life of hypersexuality as an adult in order to recreate the cause but have a different effect – a relationship. And then a child raised by alcoholic parents who then partnered with alcoholic spouses to recreate a familiar situation which she might be able to fix. I wonder if psychology helps us to grow and move on when there is someone and something to blame? I don’t know. I think it is always good to understand what motivates a person, I’m just not sure it fosters growth, it can’t solve the problem, it can only name it, and maybe in naming it you can moved passed it. Hard to say.