I spoke with a friend of mine today about relationships and how my approach to them in the past has been wrong but improving. My coping mechanism for things that weren’t going my way was to run the other way. Then I started hanging around to see what was next. This isn’t to short change romance, but the fact of the matter is over 50 if you find someone you are in harmony with, you have to hang around to work out the discordance.
However, in order to be there to work on it – you have to show up sober. Sorry, that is a prerequisite. It is hard to work on a relationship when one of you is not really there.
hey…i loved the book POSER, a memoir on yoga, seattle, marriage, motherhood…i want to pass it on and I thought of you….no pressure…only if you think you would want to read it….
I saw the reviews all over the NYT so it does look interesting. I’ll get it. Thanks for the recommend.