{"id":7876,"date":"2010-05-15T09:49:29","date_gmt":"2010-05-15T14:49:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=7876"},"modified":"2010-05-15T15:57:24","modified_gmt":"2010-05-15T20:57:24","slug":"he-said-she-said-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=7876","title":{"rendered":"He said, She said"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We were out with friends last night and listening to the spill over from couple&#8217;s therapy and I wondered to myself does couple&#8217;s therapy ever really work? There is always someone trying to change the dynamic and someone who is resistant &#8211; that&#8217;s the push pull of most couples I&#8217;ve observed my entire life. So having an outsider say to someone &#8211; you know he really is right, or you know you really oughta ____, seems to me to be futile exercise.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people know what they need to do to get along but they simply don&#8217;t do it because of reasons too myriad to categorize here.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We were out with friends last night and listening to the spill over from couple&#8217;s therapy and I wondered to myself does couple&#8217;s therapy ever really work? There is always someone trying to change the dynamic and someone who is resistant &#8211; that&#8217;s the push pull of most couples I&#8217;ve observed my entire life. So having an outsider say to someone &#8211; you know he really is right, or you know you really oughta ____,&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7876","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-232","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7876","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7876"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7876\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7890,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7876\/revisions\/7890"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7876"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7876"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7876"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}