{"id":42,"date":"2005-08-02T10:26:18","date_gmt":"2005-08-02T17:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=42"},"modified":"2005-08-02T10:26:18","modified_gmt":"2005-08-02T17:26:18","slug":"boxing-the-ghost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=42","title":{"rendered":"Boxing the Ghost"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So S is concerned that he&#8217;s fighting a ghost and while I don&#8217;t discount anything she tells me and it makes me sad to hear what she has to say sometimes, I think she too is fighting the ghost of C past. C (or D as she covertly refers to him) was rank bad, and she knew something was not right but was still blindsided, think she can&#8217;t forgive herself or him. She has never gotten over what he did no more than L has gotten over what P did and it&#8217;s possibly and probable that neither will. To this I say pishaw &#8211; leave it go. How many times have I told L you have to drop it before it poisons you  &#8211; proceed with love and it will lighten your step. Besides it&#8217;s hard to beat a ghost in battle &#8211; go ahead write the farewell letter, post it or burn it, but dissipate the pall. <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s amazing how many friends you require to field things in technicolor &#8211; I wonder how S survives with so few.<\/p>\n<p>N resigned today cuz B finally called with the green light &#8211; Thunderbirds R Go! The architect plan coming together, the house maybe a few months away, the groove finally righting itself&#8230;oh the places you will go&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So S is concerned that he&#8217;s fighting a ghost and while I don&#8217;t discount anything she tells me and it makes me sad to hear what she has to say sometimes, I think she too is fighting the ghost of C past. C (or D as she covertly refers to him) was rank bad, and she knew something was not right but was still blindsided, think she can&#8217;t forgive herself or him. She has never&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-42","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-G","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=42"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=42"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=42"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=42"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}