{"id":22350,"date":"2025-04-15T07:02:46","date_gmt":"2025-04-15T12:02:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=22350"},"modified":"2025-04-15T07:04:02","modified_gmt":"2025-04-15T12:04:02","slug":"what-do-women-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=22350","title":{"rendered":"What do women want?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You arrive at a certain age and think you know the handbook, cover to cover, play by play, and yet you don&#8217;t. 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