{"id":22343,"date":"2025-04-09T06:41:43","date_gmt":"2025-04-09T11:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=22343"},"modified":"2025-04-17T07:18:55","modified_gmt":"2025-04-17T12:18:55","slug":"the-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=22343","title":{"rendered":"The Other"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I met a man whose beliefs are different from mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It made me stumble. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I walk on firm footing of who is right and who is wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And he stands in the wrong lane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Which made me reel back and re-evaluate whether I dislike those who are wrong as much as I thought I do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If they are wrong, and he is wrong, then why are we still talking?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I want to be with the right people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I love to hear my rightness echoed back to me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I listen for confirmation of how right I am. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He does not confirm my beliefs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I suddenly feel wrong for saying mean things about them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because I am saying mean things about him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Babeeee, I have gone and done it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have met the Other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He is wrong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And we are still talking. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" data-attachment-id=\"22344\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?attachment_id=22344\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?fit=960%2C960&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"960,960\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Heron Back (Marian Glaser)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?fit=640%2C640&amp;ssl=1\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?resize=640%2C640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22344\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?w=960&amp;ssl=1 960w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Heron-Back-Marian-Glaser.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Who doesn&#8217;t love a bird captured by the wonderous lens of artist Marian Glaser? 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