{"id":11284,"date":"2011-02-22T18:07:36","date_gmt":"2011-02-22T23:07:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=11284"},"modified":"2011-02-22T18:08:10","modified_gmt":"2011-02-22T23:08:10","slug":"fight-like-a-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=11284","title":{"rendered":"Fight like a girl"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I encountered a situation recently where the old stereotypes of boys and girls was glaring. The boy wanted control and the girl wanted to share. You know it&#8217;s not really just this way because Tin is much more of a sharer than you would think (and no I&#8217;m not glorifying him because he&#8217;s my son, he is just more tender than some boys I see, neveryoumind the meltdown tantrum this morning which usurped his keyboard privileges).<\/p>\n<p>But I was speaking to a dear friend about our New Year&#8217;s resolutions and she said for the first time in her life she feels good about the ones she made and the progress she is making and I said me too. We thought about it and it seems this year instead of having goals like get this, lose that, make this, learn that &#8211; we made plans for self actualization and process. She said, &#8220;Do you think we are finally starting to be more like women then men?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I encountered a situation recently where the old stereotypes of boys and girls was glaring. The boy wanted control and the girl wanted to share. You know it&#8217;s not really just this way because Tin is much more of a sharer than you would think (and no I&#8217;m not glorifying him because he&#8217;s my son, he is just more tender than some boys I see, neveryoumind the meltdown tantrum this morning which usurped his keyboard&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-2W0","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11284"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11284\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11286,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11284\/revisions\/11286"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}