I realized early this year that I can’t have it all – I can’t be the mother I want to be to my 3 year old, run my own business, and stay in shape. It just wasn’t in my cards. And so I assessed – Tin is 3 now, and will be soon 4, then 5, etc. In time, his days will be filled with school and friends and extra curricular activities – but now,…
Today I was catching up with a dear friend and she was fussing about her kids, the entitlement they feel, and other mother rants. I laughed and said that is good to hear as I only remember her saying to her son, “I’m the luckiest mom in the world” something I now say to my son. She laughed. I picked up Tin from school today and another mother had taken him to the park as…
When my mom was young, she had four little boys and two little girls and how she kept from going stark raving mad is impossible to know. But she did have a creative streak. We lived in an apartment on Louisiana Avenue Parkway and there was a big rotund water heater in our kitchen. My mom took a magic marker and drew a benign face and wrapped a frilly apron around it and called her…
I remember when mom was in the hospital she kept making a circular motion in the bed and telling the nurses she was making room for the baby. And she was. She left a big space in my life that a baby is filling up. In the meantime, everyone at the LaLa stopped their swirling motion of making room for a baby when the baby actually showed up – Gadzooks! It is quite amazing how…