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Back to Festival Land

This trip to New York has been lopsided, too much work and not enough energy for play. Last night, after another disco nap, we went out to see what was going on in the city. We took the subway to 11th Street and wondered around. T is right, the neighborhoods with their quaint low lit restaurants and residents strolling home from picking up milk and flowers are much more intriguing than the noise of Times…

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Road warrior – pishaw

Gone are the days when I could act like a road warrior or actually want to be. After starting my day yesterday at 4AM and then ending it at Vatan’s Indian Restaurant down on 3rd and 29th for a friend’s birthday celebration, I finally hit my wall. I had just come from JFK, and collapsed on the bed for 45 minutes into a deep sleep, then I came out of the Muse and couldn’t find…

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No ordinary life

Last night, I was having a sugar low and I went to the bathroom and dropped the toilet paper, which was precariously placed on a tiny shelf, on the dark floor and started crying. This happens. My mind gets all confused and I feel as if aliens have taken over my brains and emotionally I become a basket case. So in the bathroom – which was three foot by three foot – I tried to…

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Times Square is a mall

Years ago, when Times Square was cleaned of its prostitutes, vagrants, drug addicts, a lament went out that they had genericized this area of New York. Over the years, with its Planet Hollywood (which I still don’t comprehend), its Toys R Us, and chains such as Friday’s, Times Square has become some weird suburban oasis in the midst of a most urban city. Now, the city government has turned Times Square into a mall. Some…

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Every interaction counts

I went up to the Jet Blue counter and asked the woman behind the desk a question and she barked at me to go to the Service Desk to get the answer. I didn’t get mad, I just thought poor thing – she either hates her job or she thinks that I don’t matter. I went over to the other desk and the woman there apologized for her colleague and helped me thoroughly. She was…

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Adoption – the New York part

We met with the adoption attorney and now have our assignment, put together a 7 page book that portrays every mother to be’s fantasy of where her child will wind up. Hmmm, gives me pause just how to put that together. Would the mother want a slice of the wild side or would she prefer to think that her child will grow up in a staid, uneventful household? Christmas trees and Santa Claus? Moi? T?…

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The Boston Boogie

I’ve been getting up at the crack of dawn for the last three days and in doing so have lost touch with my reality. While I have spent most of my life trying to find a routine, I’ve spent equal parts of my life disrupting anything remotely routine. And it’s probably in routine that I feel the most comfortable and yet out of it that I have the most vivid memories. Yesterday, we walked to…

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Last night I had a dream

Running around the city of New York – we went to an exhibit at the Armory on 66th and Park, Neto – a Brazilian installation artist – very fun, we lay in a pool of plastic bubbles. Then we went to a tapas bar and had cocktails and watched New York pass us by as we dissolved into girl talk – men this, babies that, clothes this. Last night I had a dream that it…

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