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Our new candelabra

We were wanting one of those old fashion silver candelabras – the ornate kind – but when I went on Ebay, I saw that they were horribly expensive. So I began searching for a silverplate one – again couldn’t find what we were looking for. We went to the French Quarter today to walk around and have a noon beer. I was feeling slightly peaked and T was shaking off her week away up north.…

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The loose thread that holds us together

I was reading the New York Times Book Review this morning and one review starts off about a mother dying of cancer and about how the loss of a parent can unhinge the fissures that keep a family together. My family was patriarchal and so the hinge unhinged in 1985 when my father passed suddenly at 62 years of age. The fissures that are coming unhinged right now are just rusty vestiges of a family…

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Routines old … and new (sigh)

Woke this morning and felt so happy it was Sunday. And like all Sundays instead of feeling like I needed more sleep, I woke with boundless energy. First I took Wolfie out since she doesn’t get the kind of walks Loca does. Her back legs are getting better but we foolishly took her off the meds fearing liver issues and her back legs deteriorated so bad that she is now back on them for good.…

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My precious self

When I got back from Nantucket, T took off for Boston then New York to work on her two book projects. So I came home to an empty house, which was a change from the past months of revolving doors of people. At first, it was so quiet it was disquieting but then I caught up on work, put some additional touches on the adoption book, ran errands, and revamped my exercise program. I’ve also…

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Royale

I was standing in line at Rouse’s today waiting to check out and I noticed a young woman bagging groceries in the next aisle. She had black pigtails and freckles on her nose, and a black bow in her hair and her name tag said Royale. I was wondering if it is indeed a fact that you can’t overcome your given name.

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Bidding adieu to expensive dinners

Last night I took a friend to dinner at Iris – a restaurant I have been to three times now – and I have to admit, I’m sort of done with expensive dinners. August for a chi chi lunch – I love. Meaux Bar anytime for dinner. But this is the third time I’ve gone to Iris and I just didn’t find the food all that. I mean it’s not bad but there is nothing…

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