{"id":85,"date":"2005-10-06T10:35:14","date_gmt":"2005-10-06T17:35:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=85"},"modified":"2005-10-06T10:35:14","modified_gmt":"2005-10-06T17:35:14","slug":"carpe-diem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=85","title":{"rendered":"Carpe Diem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Translates into don&#8217;t be impressed by anyone else&#8217;s version of the future, you have all the perspective you need right now to fulfill your day. This day has exhausted me because it started with a hurricane (alarm didn&#8217;t go off) and it has been thick with trying to stack the piles in their appropriate places and not making any headway. Traveling seems to wear down my defenses so I need to get my guard back up &#8211; because it&#8217;s like you are going along and then you realize your shields are down and bam, sharp objects poke you and make you bleed. Wonder Woman be my guide.  <\/p>\n<p>Some impressions from recent travels to Portland, Boston and New York:<\/p>\n<p>T is a thin Donny Osmond with small teeth. He remembers when he was 11 and I told him to go out and engage with real people because that is where he would learn his best stories &#8211; as Eudora Welty said &#8220;Southerners live their narratives&#8221; &#8211; he&#8217;s now 14 going on 19 &#8211; adorable. <\/p>\n<p>Casco Bay on Saturday morning with D who has started running again and was in Portland for the opening of the Gulf of Maine Research Lab &#8211; thoughts of my blessed body remembering how to run again &#8211; along the bay, across the old railroad tracks with diamonds dancing on the cold water. <\/p>\n<p>A walk through the Commons in Boston with O &#8211; such a bright girl for 27 &#8211; reminded me of a year or more with J walking the same speed and having the same type of convo &#8211; the ability to have undisturbed serious conversation &#8211; provides a perfect venue. <\/p>\n<p>Weather is outstanding<\/p>\n<p>Dinner in South End at Stella &#8211; nice looking moes when we walked in and food fabulous &#8211; tagliatelle with bolognese &#8211; JW and S sitting at next table &#8211; Julie&#8217;s survivor package she pulled together for us because of Katrina &#8211; mojitos, stress mints, relaxing lotion, bath salts. <\/p>\n<p>S laying out on O&#8217;s sofa at Custom House snoring up a storm while O and I try to drink bourbon and smoke cigs. <\/p>\n<p>My laugh has changed to a throaty he he he than the higher pitched laugh I used to laugh. <\/p>\n<p>Thing I learned &#8211; you can&#8217;t recall a sigh. <\/p>\n<p>Or that F tells me he has moved passed lonely and he claims to be a homing device for architects &#8211; he looks like one of course which must be reason number one. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Translates into don&#8217;t be impressed by anyone else&#8217;s version of the future, you have all the perspective you need right now to fulfill your day. This day has exhausted me because it started with a hurricane (alarm didn&#8217;t go off) and it has been thick with trying to stack the piles in their appropriate places and not making any headway. 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