{"id":4602,"date":"2009-08-04T15:03:04","date_gmt":"2009-08-04T20:03:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=4602"},"modified":"2009-08-04T15:37:19","modified_gmt":"2009-08-04T20:37:19","slug":"turn-the-other-cheek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=4602","title":{"rendered":"Turn the other cheek"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being raised a Jew I never bought into the turn the other cheek philosophy – I think eye for an eye was at the root of all my conflict resolution until I hit my first divorce and in the separation of property phase, what ensued poisoned my system and I walked away rather than stay and fight. Even though most of what we had was given to us by my father. But I learned then that people fight over things because things become the vocabulary of emotions.<\/p>\n

My sister text me today saying she is on her way in and she wants mom’s keys, the code, a list of the doctors, what they specialize in, and she doesn’t want any “ugly comments” out of me. So rather than FUCK YOU, I just didn’t respond. I have the keys and the code in an envelope all ready for her and I’m not engaging.<\/p>\n

My horoscope:<\/p>\n

August 04, 2009<\/h4>\n
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  1. \n
    \"Taurus\"<\/a>Taurus\u00a0(4\/20-5\/20)<\/em><\/a><\/h5>\n

    Ouch! Someone’s working their way under your skin and trying to provoke you. Instead of being irritated by what you see as their needless rebellion, take a step back and a deep breath and view things objectively. Maybe they actually have a point? Would changing your mind and your ways on this matter actually benefit you in the long run? These are all very good questions to consider.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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