{"id":3766,"date":"2009-03-26T08:50:22","date_gmt":"2009-03-26T13:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=3766"},"modified":"2009-03-26T14:59:24","modified_gmt":"2009-03-26T19:59:24","slug":"yay-oprah-for-hosting-the-lesbos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=3766","title":{"rendered":"Yay Oprah for hosting the lesbos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I taped and watched Oprah&#8217;s segment of Women Who Leave Men for Women. But I would have given it a different title like &#8211; Women have different sexual expressions &#8211; GET OVER IT. <\/p>\n<p>For years, because it applied to the rules, women have been having sex with men that was based on the single pursuit of the orgasm. Oh, and women like to come too for godsakes, it&#8217;s not that, but there is so much more to sex and intimacy that honestly I think men need to be introduced to it because there&#8217;s a lot to it that men would like as well. <\/p>\n<p>I remember a moment in the act of sex with a man where I thought, <em>I&#8217;m bored with man sex<\/em>. I don&#8217;t even know where that came from &#8211; it bubbled up from deep down in my mind. I thought about it and decided it was because I had been thinking the men of my generation are being trained by porn on how to have sex. It&#8217;s such a shame because it objectifies bodies instead of personalizes. To explore your own body and your partner&#8217;s in a cascade of sensual and sexual approaches is SO MUCH MORE REWARDING than reenacting the vacancy of porn rituals. In, out, in, out, in, out, pow. <\/p>\n<p>I think older men get it &#8211; those twenty years older than me who went through the 60s revolution and  and the younger ones seem more enlightened, but like the women of my generation who did not learn how to do their hair from their mothers, so a lot of men in my generation have made porn their sex ed instead of having explored the art of sensuality along the way. <\/p>\n<p>There is a reason that women are leaving men for women by the way; frankly, it&#8217;s not about sex though, it&#8217;s about unfettered intimacy that is downright frightening let me tell you, but beyond rewarding. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I taped and watched Oprah&#8217;s segment of Women Who Leave Men for Women. But I would have given it a different title like &#8211; Women have different sexual expressions &#8211; GET OVER IT. For years, because it applied to the rules, women have been having sex with men that was based on the single pursuit of the orgasm. Oh, and women like to come too for godsakes, it&#8217;s not that, but there is so much&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-YK","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3766"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3766\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}