{"id":3704,"date":"2009-03-10T16:46:02","date_gmt":"2009-03-10T21:46:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=3704"},"modified":"2009-03-10T16:47:08","modified_gmt":"2009-03-10T21:47:08","slug":"i-want-to-make-it-alright","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=3704","title":{"rendered":"I want to make it alright"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The babydaddy wants the baby even though he has no means to take care of her. The babymama is stuck in the midst of a quagmire in a relationship with a man who has addiction problems and no means to take care of a baby that he is now hell bent on killing a lot of people over if he doesn&#8217;t get. This is not to mention he does not support the son he has or the fact that we now have learned there is yet another woman pregnant with his baby. <\/p>\n<p>The babymama&#8217;s family all have different sets of interests &#8211; a sister who couldn&#8217;t have her own who whips god&#8217;s words about homosexuality and the devil, children with their own naivete about what having another sibling really means to their mother, a grandmother who wants to try all over again with this baby girl. Sandwiched into this equation are two generations if not more of teenage pregnancy, absentee males, and poverty. <\/p>\n<p>Then there is us &#8211; baby mamas  &#8211; who just cannot understand why there are so many babies out there and yet having a baby seems to be the hardest thing in the world &#8211; to us. <\/p>\n<p>But what do we know, it&#8217;s a full moon. And today, our birthmother has decided she cannot oppose the birthfather so we are at an impasse and therefore our contract is void, our relationship in a void, and us, well:<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s crying time again. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The babydaddy wants the baby even though he has no means to take care of her. The babymama is stuck in the midst of a quagmire in a relationship with a man who has addiction problems and no means to take care of a baby that he is now hell bent on killing a lot of people over if he doesn&#8217;t get. This is not to mention he does not support the son he has&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-XK","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3704\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}