{"id":334,"date":"2006-08-27T19:41:59","date_gmt":"2006-08-28T02:41:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=334"},"modified":"2006-08-27T19:43:44","modified_gmt":"2006-08-28T02:43:44","slug":"the-mistress-wants-love-too","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=334","title":{"rendered":"The Mistress has needs too"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I walked Bean late in the day and arrived at the LaLa just as K was pulling out &#8211; why he is working on Sunday is beyond me. But whew, I dodged that bullet. I feel like he holds my house hostage. I went inside and he had trimmed out the two clerestory windows and framed one window in the kitchen. Seemed like a long time to just get these things done. <\/p>\n<p>The window manufacturer in California sent me an email the windows are being shipped tomorrow &#8211; woo hoo! Now to get the glass man to finally call me back with a price and place the order. The roofers got derailed on a large slate tile job uptown, I&#8217;m waiting for their lull to get them here &#8211; because I don&#8217;t want to sheet rock until there is some kind of closure. <\/p>\n<p>I went over to N&#8217;s afterwards &#8211; Thad was filming the Snake voicing over his poetry written during and after Katrina. L was there to do some voice overs too. I haven&#8217;t seen L in a while &#8211; I haven&#8217;t been getting up early to walk the Bean &#8211; and it impressed me again how handsome a man Gomez actually is. Anyway, we had a good exchange, having been distant with each other lately. He&#8217;s coming to the commemoration, which is a good thing, since this is all about healing. <\/p>\n<p>On the way home, V was sitting outside her house having a beer and watching a tiny television. Her legs were slick with bug spray and she offered me some so I sat down with her for a bit. She said her beau of 16 years had changed &#8211; having lost his house, his job, everything cause of Katrina &#8211; he had turned to his family for comfort and shut V out &#8211; she said it was the first time in 16 years that she actually realized her place &#8211; as the mistress &#8211; and she knows all she has been losing and lost. <\/p>\n<p>She also said she hopes L and I get together and I said, we&#8217;re friends is all. L lives directly across the street. She said he was going inside to call me when she saw him last and sure enough when I got home there was a message from him. I told her he wants a woman to love, and I&#8217;m not that woman, so I don&#8217;t want to lead him on. She sighed. She said, you know he is a hard one to read, always keeping to himself and I laughed and said, I know, I call him the man of mystery. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I walked Bean late in the day and arrived at the LaLa just as K was pulling out &#8211; why he is working on Sunday is beyond me. But whew, I dodged that bullet. I feel like he holds my house hostage. I went inside and he had trimmed out the two clerestory windows and framed one window in the kitchen. Seemed like a long time to just get these things done. The window manufacturer&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-5o","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=334"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}