{"id":3316,"date":"2008-11-08T20:00:40","date_gmt":"2008-11-09T01:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=3316"},"modified":"2008-11-08T20:02:22","modified_gmt":"2008-11-09T01:02:22","slug":"the-dementia-helps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=3316","title":{"rendered":"The dementia helps"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like the world is on Xanax or Atavan these days and a doctor friend was telling me that these are the WORST drugs because they are like cigarettes &#8211; one you have one, you need another one because you have withdrawals when it leaves your system and so you are always craving more. <\/p>\n<p>What I&#8217;m trying to figure out is why is everyone so depressed to begin with? A friend was telling me she spoke with her dad on Wednesday and he asked, &#8220;Are you going to any election parties tonight?&#8221; And she said, &#8220;The election was yesterday, dad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Mom is in a black hole where her income does not equal her outcome and this is cause for despair. What to do? We&#8217;re headed over there with cans of Tecate, a check for two months rent, ads for part-time nursing jobs from Craig&#8217;s List but maybe dementia ain&#8217;t a bad place to be when getting old seems to be fraught with fear and loneliness, or is it? <\/p>\n<p>What makes you happy? I feel like Steve Martin when he was leaving his big house, I just need my slinky, this chair, and &#8230; I&#8217;m happy in the face of god knows what, but I just wish I had the happy pills or the magic wand to bring everyone I love into the glittery snow globe of joy with me. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like the world is on Xanax or Atavan these days and a doctor friend was telling me that these are the WORST drugs because they are like cigarettes &#8211; one you have one, you need another one because you have withdrawals when it leaves your system and so you are always craving more. What I&#8217;m trying to figure out is why is everyone so depressed to begin with? A friend was telling me&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3316","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-Ru","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3316"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3316\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}