{"id":2129,"date":"2007-12-19T14:52:19","date_gmt":"2007-12-19T19:52:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=2129"},"modified":"2007-12-19T14:53:16","modified_gmt":"2007-12-19T19:53:16","slug":"drawn-to-the-flame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=2129","title":{"rendered":"Love can exist without respect"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have so many interesting and loving people in my life &#8211; not just now but through the ages &#8211; people who I should not have come to know so intimately given why we know each other &#8211; take my accountant &#8211; in a conversation over taxes and whatnot &#8211; he writes me this:\u00a0&lt;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><font face=\"Verdana, Helvetica, Arial\"><span style=\"font-size: 12px\">on the flip side, some people go thru life as a dependant not a provider. these people are the &#8220;baby-sitted&#8221;&#8230;and become liabilities of those from whom they receive the most love.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/font><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12px\">your mom is one of those receivers and you&#8217;re the giver. insure that you\/and or the siblings are, at least, the beneficiary. do not lose your love for her. she needs you. she needs your love. love can exist without respect.<\/span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have so many interesting and loving people in my life &#8211; not just now but through the ages &#8211; people who I should not have come to know so intimately given why we know each other &#8211; take my accountant &#8211; in a conversation over taxes and whatnot &#8211; he writes me this:\u00a0&lt; on the flip side, some people go thru life as a dependant not a provider. these people are the &#8220;baby-sitted&#8221;&#8230;and become&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2129","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-yl","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2129","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2129"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2129\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2129"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2129"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2129"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}