{"id":20591,"date":"2015-03-18T11:46:42","date_gmt":"2015-03-18T16:46:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=20591"},"modified":"2015-03-18T13:35:35","modified_gmt":"2015-03-18T18:35:35","slug":"are-the-dead-grateful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=20591","title":{"rendered":"Are the Dead Grateful?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My therapist said to me yesterday when I saw her out walking, &#8220;Adulthood sucks.&#8221; Her best friend had died. <\/p>\n<p>I ran into a friend of mine at the dog park this morning, she told me a mutual friend of ours had died. Chris, who started Bacchanal, a place where we would gather after the 2005 Federal Flood &#8211; 10 years later, he&#8217;s dead in his sleep. How can this happen?<\/p>\n<p>My friend writes to tell me her cousin went into a coma last night. He was at the park enjoying the day with his wife, and then he was making tacos for her, and then he was in a coma. <\/p>\n<p>I rode home from the retreat with someone who told me two stories about women in his life who had died of cancer &#8211; both stories brought tears to my eyes. <\/p>\n<p>Another man at the retreat told me of his near death experience &#8211; his out of body &#8211; his clear realization of being a spiritual being having a human experience. <\/p>\n<p>The messaging &#8211; the portents &#8211; the clear cut this is what you are supposed to be focusing on is this &#8211; what will you do with your one and precious life? <\/p>\n<p>Or at least this one and precious life that you are in now. <\/p>\n<p>And while you are figuring that out &#8211; <em>be grateful<\/em>. <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Birago Diop: &#8220;Sighs&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hear more often things than beings,<br \/>\nThe voice of the fire listening,<br \/>\nHear the voice of the water.<br \/>\nHear in the wind<br \/>\nThe bushes sobbing,<br \/>\nIt is the sigh of our forebears. <\/p>\n<p>Those who are dead are never gone:<br \/>\nThey are there in the thickening shadow.<br \/>\nThe dead are not under the earth:<br \/>\nThey are in the tree that rustles,<br \/>\nThey are in the wood that groans,<br \/>\nThey are in the water that runs,<br \/>\nThey are in the water that sleeps,<br \/>\nThey are in the hut, they are in the crowd,<br \/>\nThe dead are not dead. <\/p>\n<p>Those who are dead are never gone,<br \/>\nThey are in the breast of the woman,<br \/>\nThey are in the child who is wailing<br \/>\nAnd in the firebrand that flames.<br \/>\nThe dead are not under the earth:<br \/>\nThey are in the fire that is dying,<br \/>\nThey are in the grasses that weep,<br \/>\nThey are in the whimpering rocks,<br \/>\nThey are in the forest, they are in the house,<br \/>\nThe dead are not dead.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My therapist said to me yesterday when I saw her out walking, &#8220;Adulthood sucks.&#8221; Her best friend had died. I ran into a friend of mine at the dog park this morning, she told me a mutual friend of ours had died. Chris, who started Bacchanal, a place where we would gather after the 2005 Federal Flood &#8211; 10 years later, he&#8217;s dead in his sleep. How can this happen? 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