{"id":1984,"date":"2007-11-15T10:07:41","date_gmt":"2007-11-15T15:07:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=1984"},"modified":"2007-11-15T10:07:41","modified_gmt":"2007-11-15T15:07:41","slug":"be-strong-in-the-face-of-denial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=1984","title":{"rendered":"Be strong in the face of denial"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>That someone who thinks her husband is cheating just called me to say that I made her feel better yesterday by saying if she loves him, she can forgive him, because it&#8217;s probably only sex. She&#8217;s going to operate her own stealth sting and go sit outside his apartment and see if she can catch him. I said, be careful for goodness sakes &#8211; people do stupid things when they are jealous and angry. <\/p>\n<p>But most of all, I told her, &#8220;be strong.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Now was I right or what? Even in being completely a hard ass, she took the one glint of optimism I gave her and decided that is what I said to her yesterday. God help her and me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That someone who thinks her husband is cheating just called me to say that I made her feel better yesterday by saying if she loves him, she can forgive him, because it&#8217;s probably only sex. She&#8217;s going to operate her own stealth sting and go sit outside his apartment and see if she can catch him. I said, be careful for goodness sakes &#8211; people do stupid things when they are jealous and angry. But&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1984","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-w0","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1984","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1984"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1984\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1984"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1984"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1984"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}