{"id":19163,"date":"2014-02-06T19:00:28","date_gmt":"2014-02-07T00:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=19163"},"modified":"2014-02-06T19:05:34","modified_gmt":"2014-02-07T00:05:34","slug":"who-is-that-screaming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=19163","title":{"rendered":"Who is that screaming?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You know how I&#8217;ve been talking about not letting the thoughts in your head define you &#8211; well, what about the screaming crazy woman? Yes, that crazy showed up yesterday after a phone conversation and she yelled at the top of her lungs &#8211; I WILL NOT GIVE UP &#8211; and she said it with such force and such determination that I whispered &#8220;whoa&#8221; &#8211; and so while we may want to let our thoughts all go by the wayside &#8211; what the screaming crazy woman says warrants our attention. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"19164\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?attachment_id=19164\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n.jpg?fit=615%2C439\" data-orig-size=\"615,439\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n.jpg?fit=615%2C439\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n.jpg?resize=615%2C439\" alt=\"1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n\" width=\"615\" height=\"439\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-19164\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n.jpg?w=615 615w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/1506039_10152246945356255_1286489019_n.jpg?resize=300%2C214 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve come to a clear conclusion after spending nearly 17 years building SOMEONE ELSE&#8217;s COMPANY &#8211; never work for anyone in your life &#8211; that is my last word on the subject &#8211; other people have no interest in making YOU money much less making YOU happy. <\/p>\n<p>My friend in California said today that no one decides how much she will get paid, she decides. I like her philosophy and here on adopted it as my own. <\/p>\n<p>I like what this <a href=\"http:\/\/new.ted.com\/talks\/nigel_marsh_how_to_make_work_life_balance_work?quote=896\" target=\"_blank\">guy says in this TED talk<\/a> &#8211; <em>small things matter<\/em> &#8211; how you spend your life, what you do for work, and who you answer to is key to life&#8217;s success. So my dears, despite what anyone tells you &#8211; RUN, do not walk, towards your dreams and push away those on the sidelines that are not there to help you on your journey. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know how I&#8217;ve been talking about not letting the thoughts in your head define you &#8211; well, what about the screaming crazy woman? Yes, that crazy showed up yesterday after a phone conversation and she yelled at the top of her lungs &#8211; I WILL NOT GIVE UP &#8211; and she said it with such force and such determination that I whispered &#8220;whoa&#8221; &#8211; and so while we may want to let our thoughts&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-4Z5","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19163"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19163\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19168,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19163\/revisions\/19168"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}