{"id":18707,"date":"2013-09-19T08:22:26","date_gmt":"2013-09-19T13:22:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=18707"},"modified":"2013-09-19T08:22:26","modified_gmt":"2013-09-19T13:22:26","slug":"the-relationship-spectrum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=18707","title":{"rendered":"The Relationship Spectrum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are many people on the relationship spectrum in my life these days. I spent Saturday with two couples who are lovely and loving. I&#8217;ve also spent an inordinate amount of time recently with couples where the men are unfaithful and the women deceived or disenchanted or both. I&#8217;ve spent hours and evenings with people longing to be in a relationship but caught in a trap of desire and revulsion. <\/p>\n<p>Across this spectrum I&#8217;ve seen only one constant and it was written on the marquis at First Grace this week:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"18708\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?attachment_id=18708\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?fit=2448%2C3264\" data-orig-size=\"2448,3264\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.4&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;iPhone 4S&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1379265903&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.28&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;50&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0078125&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG_4567\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?fit=640%2C853\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?resize=640%2C853\" alt=\"IMG_4567\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-18708\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?w=2448 2448w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?resize=225%2C300 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?resize=768%2C1024 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dangermond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/IMG_4567.jpg?w=1920 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many people on the relationship spectrum in my life these days. 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