{"id":1869,"date":"2007-10-25T18:02:20","date_gmt":"2007-10-25T23:02:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=1869"},"modified":"2016-07-01T13:10:15","modified_gmt":"2016-07-01T18:10:15","slug":"when-is-the-true-self-revealed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=1869","title":{"rendered":"When is the true self revealed?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A girlfriend of mine who has proven to be more adept at asking for what she wants from relationships than me sent me this: &#8220;Oprah once repeated something one of her guests said that sticks with me: When someone shows you who he really is, believe him!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The best lines in poetry from John Keats:<br \/>\n&#8220;Beauty is truth, truth beauty,&#8221; &#8211; that is all<br \/>\n        Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know.<\/p>\n<p>The whole poem &#8211; Ode to a Grecian Urn<\/p>\n<p>Thou still unravish&#8217;d bride of quietness,<br \/>\n    Thou foster-child of silence and slow time,<br \/>\nSylvan historian, who canst thou express<br \/>\n    A flowery tale more sweetly than our rhyme:<br \/>\nWhat leaf-fring&#8217;d legend haunt about thy shape<br \/>\n    Of deities or mortals, or of both,<br \/>\n        In Tempe or the dales of Arcady?<br \/>\n    What men or gods are these?  What maidens loth?<br \/>\nWhat mad pursuit?  What struggle to escape?<br \/>\n        What pipes and timbrels?  What wild ecstasy?<br \/>\nHeard melodies are sweet, but those unheard<br \/>\n    Are sweeter: therefore, ye soft pipes, play on;<br \/>\nNot to the sensual ear, but, more endear&#8217;d,<br \/>\n    Pipe to the spirit ditties of no tone:<br \/>\nFair youth, beneath the trees, thou canst not leave<br \/>\n    Thy song, nor ever can those trees be bare;<br \/>\n        Bold lover, never, never canst thou kiss,<br \/>\nThough winning near the goal &#8211; yet, do not grieve;<br \/>\n        She cannot fade, though thou hast not thy bliss,<br \/>\n    For ever wilt thou love, and she be fair!<\/p>\n<p>Ah, happy, happy boughs! that cannot shed<br \/>\n    Your leaves, nor ever bid the spring adieu;<br \/>\nAnd, happy melodist, unwearied,<br \/>\n    For ever piping songs for ever new;<br \/>\nMore happy love! more happy, happy love!<br \/>\n    For ever warm and still to be enjoy&#8217;d,<br \/>\n        For ever panting, and for ever young;<br \/>\nAll breathing human passion far above,<br \/>\n    That leaves a heart high-sorrowful and cloy&#8217;d,<br \/>\n        A burning forehead, and a parching tongue.<\/p>\n<p>Who are these coming to the sacrifice?<br \/>\n    To what green altar, O mysterious priest,<br \/>\nLead&#8217;st thou that heifer lowing at the skies,<br \/>\n    And all her silken flanks with garlands drest?<br \/>\nWhat little town by river or sea shore,<br \/>\n    Or mountain-built with peaceful citadel,<br \/>\n        Is emptied of this folk, this pious morn?<br \/>\nAnd, little town, thy streets for evermore<br \/>\n    Will silent be; and not a soul to tell<br \/>\n        Why thou art desolate, can e&#8217;er return.<\/p>\n<p>O Attic shape!  Fair attitude! with brede<br \/>\n    Of marble men and maidens overwrought,<br \/>\nWith forest branches and the trodden weed;<br \/>\n    Thou, silent form, dost tease us out of thought<br \/>\nAs doth eternity: Cold Pastoral!<br \/>\n    When old age shall this generation waste,<br \/>\n        Thou shalt remain, in midst of other woe<br \/>\n    Than ours, a friend to man, to whom thou say&#8217;st,<br \/>\n&#8220;Beauty is truth, truth beauty,&#8221; &#8211; that is all<br \/>\n        Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A girlfriend of mine who has proven to be more adept at asking for what she wants from relationships than me sent me this: &#8220;Oprah once repeated something one of her guests said that sticks with me: When someone shows you who he really is, believe him!&#8221; The best lines in poetry from John Keats: &#8220;Beauty is truth, truth beauty,&#8221; &#8211; that is all Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know. 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