{"id":18620,"date":"2013-08-20T14:29:57","date_gmt":"2013-08-20T19:29:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=18620"},"modified":"2013-08-20T14:29:57","modified_gmt":"2013-08-20T19:29:57","slug":"relationships-are","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=18620","title":{"rendered":"Relationships are &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was driven to the airport by a friend who had come back to the U.S. suddenly in crisis &#8211; she had sublet her apartment, gone out of the country to be with her boyfriend and secured a number of gigs while there. Then it blew up.<\/p>\n<p>I arrived in Spain to learn that my dear friend was leaving her partner after twenty years as he wrestled with whether there was love left.<\/p>\n<p>I arrived in New Orleans to learn that my dear friend who had just gotten engaged had called it off after more had been revealed.<\/p>\n<p>Last night, a friend came over to tell me he is splitting up after 18 years with his wife.<\/p>\n<p>Someone asked me recently if I know anyone who has a good relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I do know people who have a good relationship. Not perfect. But loving and supportive.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was driven to the airport by a friend who had come back to the U.S. suddenly in crisis &#8211; she had sublet her apartment, gone out of the country to be with her boyfriend and secured a number of gigs while there. Then it blew up. I arrived in Spain to learn that my dear friend was leaving her partner after twenty years as he wrestled with whether there was love left. I arrived&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-4Qk","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18620"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18620\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18621,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18620\/revisions\/18621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}