{"id":17566,"date":"2013-01-11T11:33:12","date_gmt":"2013-01-11T16:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=17566"},"modified":"2013-01-11T11:33:12","modified_gmt":"2013-01-11T16:33:12","slug":"three-wise-women-and-a-few-angels-thrown-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=17566","title":{"rendered":"Three Wise Women and a few angels thrown in"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I went to look at an apartment and the woman said a lot of folks had come through and it was going to be hard to decide who to give it to. I said, &#8220;Go with your gut.&#8221; And she said that in the past her gut had been wrong. And I heard her, having just gone with my gut for the offer on the house and it having been wrong. <\/p>\n<p>So where do you go when your gut is confused? To your Three Wise Women. Wise woman No. 1 said, &#8220;Focus on the tangible part of this argument not the emotional.&#8221; Wise woman No. 2 said, &#8220;Here is a mental image to have in your mind when talking about things that make you angry, it will make you laugh instead.&#8221; Wise woman No. 3 said, &#8220;I&#8217;m here and you&#8217;re not calling enough because I know you are going through a lot and so I expect more phone calls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>One of the angels brought me barley and shitake mushroom soup last night as comfort food. <\/p>\n<p>Another angel dropped a book off called Catastrophe Living &#8211; she said it had worked for her during a similar time in her life. <\/p>\n<p>And yet another angel treated me to lunch &#8211; a gluten free pizza and glass of wine. <\/p>\n<p>I feel for the first time in a long time as if I have the clarity I need to effect change in my life, and yet that doesn&#8217;t come without a lot of consequences. The Wise Women and Angels are softening the blow. <\/p>\n<p>I bow before you in gratitude. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I went to look at an apartment and the woman said a lot of folks had come through and it was going to be hard to decide who to give it to. I said, &#8220;Go with your gut.&#8221; And she said that in the past her gut had been wrong. And I heard her, having just gone with my gut for the offer on the house and it having been wrong. So where do you&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17566","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-4zk","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17566","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17566"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17566\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17567,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17566\/revisions\/17567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17566"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17566"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17566"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}