All of these are the universal elements – I speak to people in China of love – one woman tells me she loves too much, she’s too emotional, she cries and gets hurts; another says she believes the adage that good girls love bad boys and vice versa – it’s an old Chinese saying she says – I tell her it exists in every culture and repeat “Good girls get the guy, but bad girls want for nothing at all.” <\/p>\n
The universal sentiment that who you like might not be who you love. <\/p>\n
A man tells me, “Sometimes I get sick of the game, but then I find myself right back in it again.”<\/p>\n
Another says to me, “I am a mess emotionally in relationships” – I tell him smart women are dumb in love.<\/p>\n
We all agree the winners are those who compartmentalize – not us – the ones who pull and synthesize all things into one mass – the big heart as a large as a globe. <\/p>\n
One woman says we are all alike, we have a habit and we need to break it. <\/p>\n
There are the women who love attention, who love money, who love men, who love to love. These are universal. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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