{"id":1105,"date":"2007-03-25T09:45:04","date_gmt":"2007-03-25T16:45:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=1105"},"modified":"2007-03-25T09:46:59","modified_gmt":"2007-03-25T16:46:59","slug":"the-secret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/?p=1105","title":{"rendered":"The Secret"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Seems like I can&#8217;t walk out the door with someone not speaking to be about The Secret. And what is the secret? That positive thoughts attract positive action. This is a secret? My neighbor brought over the DVD because the universe now understands that I am not going to buy and read the book, and the Secret wants an in to my life. So foot up, shackled to my couch, I am watching The Secret and lo and behold, like I said, I know it. <\/p>\n<p>Remember the Louise Nevelson quote I write about? &#8211; I have made my world and it is a much better one than the one offered to me &#8211; that&#8217;s my thought process already. What you imagine and desire of life &#8211; that is the life you will live. <\/p>\n<p>Okay, I&#8217;m living it with some modifications &#8211; I admit almost caving on the remodel &#8211; I lost faith at several steps in the process from conception to completion &#8211; always at night alone in my bed. Now I know better and believe stronger in the singular vision that any project requires. <\/p>\n<p>I admit to having lost faith in relationships &#8211; but I will get my faith back. Last night, sitting in the rocking chairs on the front porch  looking at the evening lights twinkling in the bayou and having a glass of red wine with a colleague who is staying with me &#8211; we were talking about life and how one thing leads to another and most times the events are unplanned. She told me she&#8217;s lucky because she married her soulmate. I said I thought I had found mine but the kid thing threw it a curve ball. And she said, as almost 99% of the mothers I&#8217;ve spoken with have said, oh, but that&#8217;s a big curve ball. <\/p>\n<p>The secret is don&#8217;t give short shrift to your life&#8217;s desires because they will manifest themselves in other ways and not necessarily in a pretty package. My elephant in the room ended up leaving a huge pile of shit that has taken a long time to clean up. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Seems like I can&#8217;t walk out the door with someone not speaking to be about The Secret. And what is the secret? That positive thoughts attract positive action. This is a secret? My neighbor brought over the DVD because the universe now understands that I am not going to buy and read the book, and the Secret wants an in to my life. So foot up, shackled to my couch, I am watching The Secret&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1kHSD-hP","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1105"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1105\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.dangermond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}