Gay today, Big tomorrow
Today Tin said to me, “You’re gay.” And I said, “Actually, I’m bisexual.” But I asked him where he had heard that and he wouldn’t say but I speculated school. I said we don’t say that because it isn’t nice. Later he was looking at my Facebook page and he said who is that big girl and I said, we don’t say that because it isn’t nice. And he said why not?
Because it’s not nice to call attention to someone and say, “You’re big because it implies bigger than other people which then means others are normal and the big girl is not.”
And saying you’re gay is calling someone out for their sexual preference, which has nothing to do with you, so it’s rude. How would you friend feel whose fathers are gay if you said something that hurt his dads’ feelings?