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Musings on a woman

I often envisioned myself as Cleopatra strutting across the great stage of life – and had always gone looking for Antony. But now I have found my Cleopatra – the Cleopatra that Shakespeare describes: Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale Her infinite variety : other women cloy The appetites they feed ; but she makes hungry Where most she satisfies : for vilest things Become themselves in her ; that the holy priests Bless…

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One bottle at a time

I was walking Loca this morning through the park and admiring how the grass was cut, the night herons were standing at soldier-like attention on the banks of the lagoon, the paths were newly constructed, and all seemed right with this little world. Up ahead I saw a man with one of those long grabber poles picking up bottles out of the lagoon and trash underneath the shrubs – as I passed I noticed it…

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The two sides of New Orleans

The bright side of New Orleans: Yesterday, I was standing in my neighbors yard with a glass of wine catching up – next door the two young children were playing, the little tow head girl in her dress was climbing the crepe myrtle tree in the front yard and her older brother was shuffling up and down the driveway on his scooter. He said, “Ms. Rachel, I’ve started tennis camp. My dad was a champion…

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The things you can’t bring back in your suitcase

Woman goes on journey, comes home changed. What do you have to say for yourself? 1. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Most things require compromise. In my zest for “having to be me” I realize I have to consider how being me affects my loved ones. 2. There is no place like home – as great and exciting as it is to travel, this morning as I walked Loca and encountered…

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The daily habit is held in abeyance

Kay Ryan was named Poet Laureate and takes her post in autumn this year – a woman, a lesbian in a relationship for 30 years, a reluctant poet. I read one of her poems – Things Shouldn’t be so Hard and thought of my girlfriend, who is still in Croatia – she has miles to go before we rest – she’s not back for a month – and I am anxious for her return so…

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Obama – why he matters

As I was leaving Eastern Europe, Obama was making his way overseas. Croatians asked me what I thought about a black president and my response was “we need him” – America needs hope, and a fresh look at poverty, education, healthcare and most certainly our foreign policy. A while back in Turkey, my friend’s dad had said about Gul’s election – what Turkey does matters only to Turkey, but what America does matters to the…

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People are people – everyone matters

Coming home in the Zagreb airport, I looked down at a child’s composition book where he had written in large awkward letters “people are people, everyone matters” – it struck me only insofar as I had just had a bit of an awakening just two nights hence when I had been reminded of the homophobia that exists in Croatia – I thought as I got on the plane that I have embraced my love of…

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