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T minus 18 days and now another place to miss you

Woke this morning and realized why City Park looks so special effects like – turns out all the cypress trees are in full bloom and the color is like no other green in the world – it is simply the most beautiful green on the planet. As I walked through the park this morning, I thought about my upcoming trip to New York and when I was there with T.  Then I thought of T…

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An elephant remembers

It is amazing to me how deeply kindness affects me these days. In my youth, I thought nothing of it and as a matter of fact was almost drawn to the opposite, but it’s as if age makes you more vulnerable, more raw, and kindness is the balm that provides a protective layer against the insult of life. Yesterday, I was on the phone with my mom, who had fallen up the stairs and she…

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T minus 19 days and thank the universe there are consumer electronics

Cell phone, Skype, and email – how could I bear this separation without these things. Or do they make it worse? In yesteryear when we had to rely on mail and before that courier, was it easier to enter into another rhythm and bide your time while your love one was absent. Does knowing she is a phone call away, a Skype away, an email away make it a little more anxious when there is…

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We have too much damn fun around here

This weekend is the 10th anniversary of the Vagina Monologues, the French Quarter Festival, the Ponchatoula Strawberry Festival. Good grief – no down time for the merry makers. Tonight, I’m opting out of the whole shebang and sticking close to the LaLa – my brain has been stretched in all possible directions, my heart is in Istanbul, and my body is in need of some desperate down time. Sometimes fun is pulling your dog’s ear…

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On the darker side of light

From Silence is Violence today: April 10, 2008 For many months now, we have found the motivation for an entire public awareness movement in one case that has meant a lot to us personally. Dinerral Shavers was our friend and our brother.  His murder on December 28, 2006 inspired us to call on our leaders and our fellow citizens to do more for each other and for our city.  For over a year now, Dinerral’s…

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This too shall past

In the park this morning, a woman walking a chihuahua with a rope stopped to let her wiry dog sniff Loca. For a change, Loca was being tolerant and not a rascal. The woman said in a dreamlike state that her other dog, mama, had P A S T – she spelled it out as if the dogs knew – but what she meant was that the dog had passed – P A S S…

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