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Why (or what) we celebrate

I went next door and had some champagne for a mutual friend’s birthday – she’s 45 – seems young. Anyway, we ate cream puffs from Angelo Brocato’s and drank my favorite champagne, La Reve, and then we went on the porch and felt the gulf breeze blowing and as we stood on the porch, we saw a SUV drive onto the bayou and steal Helen’s chairs. The birthday girl called out brazenly, hey, what are…

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If you could read my mind

Right now, sitting at my kitchen counter, the reflections of the street lights on the bayou, Loca on the couch (you can’t see her, she’s black, the couch is black), Arlene licking my bare toes, a glass of Crios rose iced down, the ceiling fans whirring, a certain something in the air that it is all going to be okay, or better than that, it’s all going to continue to be fabulous, and the best…

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The Rachel method

Long criticized by some in my life for aggregating intelligence from friends and family in order to make decisions, I was interested in the concept that James Surowiecki uses in the Wisdom of Crowds – an idea that the swarm is intelligent, not the herd, but the swarm – like watching a school of fish make an immediate right turn or a flock of birds arrange itself in a chevron and fly south – on…

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Do you know what it means to miss New Orleans?

Here are the lyrics and did I write this song in my dreams or was it Louis Armstrong? Do you know what it means to miss New Orleans And miss it each night and day I know I’m not wrong… this feelings gettin stronger The longer, I stay away Miss them moss covered vines…the tall sugar pines Where mockin birds used to sing And I’d like to see that lazy Mississippi…hurryin into spring The moonlight…

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Betty Ford and you

I caught up with an old friend whom I admire, who confessed to me that he had just gotten out of Betty Ford and I said “I want to go!” Not because I have an addiction I want to overcome, I just want the whole spa experience of it. This man told me he was asked to isolate five areas of his life – what kind of person are you? – we both knew what…

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