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Real is the best thing yet

Last night, I walked into Swirl and thus began the drama – different people, different chambers of emotions. I sat with my Turkish friends to have a relaxing, don’t think about the day, kind of interchange, but I misread one man’s intentions – I was being friendly, he serious. Later, after we all dispersed, M came back to my apartment for a nightcap and declared, “Rachel, you are so real.” Since that seems to be…

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Outside looking in

I was telling a friend the other day that the world sees her very differently than how she feels inside – she appears strong, confident and appears to have it all. This morning at dawn I was approaching the LaLa when I saw two women on the bayou walk across the street to peer inside my house because G was in there and the lights were on. It appears effortless from the outside but let’s…

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The amazing capacity for healing

This morning, after seven hours of Ambien induced sleep, the world indeed looked different. I’m thankful for all the blessings I have in life – the wherewithal to finish the LaLa against all odds, the ability to open my heart again, and being steeped in friendships and family that nurture my spirit. So today – K is treading on thin ice because I won’t tolerate his baggage spewing out into the LaLa – the house…

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March for Survival

Walk With Us and Silence is Violence. March For Survival update: 1. The Route: *Note that there has been a slight change in the starting point for the march, from the downtown side of the Canal Street ferry landing to the uptown side of the ferry landing.* Formation: 11am at the foot of Canal Street (by the World Trade Center ) Depart: 11:30am . Proceed up Canal Street to Tchoupitoulas; left on Tchoupitoulas to Poydras…

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So easy to give advice, so hard to take it

Went to see mom this evening and commiserate with her about my sister – who is up and down and all around. My sister’s dentist told her she needs psychotherapy. There you have it – when the dentist is telling you this – hmmm. My mother, on the other hand, is exhausted from a full-time stressful job with an hour commute each way – she’s 71 – it’s ridiculous. But nurses are quitting daily because…

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Babies beget babies beget babies

L just called and I said “you were on my mind because my foot is hurting and I don’t think I am going to be able to run the half marathon with you.” She said, “I was calling to tell you the same thing and you are to blame for why I can’t run. The night you had the hen party I went home and got knocked up again and the doctor thinks we are…

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